this is the code for the render ad
Community› Wedding Month Club Boards› May 2012 Weddings
May 2012 Weddings
New Discussion

Just need to vent

meremintmeremint member
First Comment
in May 2012 Weddings
My fiance's family believes that it is polite to just not respond with their RSVP than to send it back with a no.

I'm really frustrated with this because we have a strict guest limit and we didn't get to invite some people we wanted because we wanted to make sure our families could be there.

I just want to know that they are a no for sure so we don't end up going into the next package size if we invite some friends we couldn't invite originally. :/

::end vent::
Read a blog and see photos from our wedding! Daisypath Anniversary tickers
Report Reply to Post

Re: Just need to vent

  • evenundomielevenundomiel member
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Comments
    I would recommend calling those people who don't RSVP. You need to know numbers...it's ok to do this. If you don't have the numbers, have your FIs family do it...it's their silly friends who aren't RSVPing!
    imageAnniversary
    Report Reply
  • meremintmeremint member
    First Comment
    edited March 2012
    Yeah tried it and they won't call. They told us they "probably weren't coming". So frustrating!
    Read a blog and see photos from our wedding! Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    Report Reply
  • evenundomielevenundomiel member
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Comments
    I would wait until a few weeks before your wedding to call. For us it's a matter of days, but for them it might seem like a while off. Wait a bit and their plans might have firmed up some.
    imageAnniversary
    Report Reply
  • AurorasEnvyAurorasEnvy
    2500 Comments
    SO annoying.  I'd wait until your RSVP passes, and then call them and in a friendly way tell them that if they don't RSVP as yes and show up, there will be no place and no meal for them!
    photo trex2_zps7ab4e9b0.jpg
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    Report Reply
  • mandi921vhmandi921vh member
    Eighth Anniversary 2500 Comments Combo Breaker
    That is so annoying and kind of sounds rude... but there is not much you can do... call them back closer to the date and see what they say.
    imageDaisypath Anniversary tickers
    Report Reply
  • dori851dori851 member
    1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    I agree with PPs & would definitely wait a bit to call them. I'm not sure what your RSVP "due date" is, but ours isn't until April 21st & I wouldn't call anyone until that day passes.

    That is very frustrating though, I understand where you're coming from!
    Wedding Countdown Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards