We're looking for a place to have our reception after a Catholic mass. I'm from the North so we're looking to have more northern style all-out dinner and dancing reception but on a budget of $10,000 or less (for all venue costs including catering) preferably less! Most of our guests are from out of town which is why we're looking at hotels. But we don't want to feel like we're getting married in a conference room. Any suggestions? Oh, the mass will be in Cary so the Raleigh/Cary/RTP area for the reception.