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What to do?

turtlesloveturtleslove
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in May 2013 Weddings
What are you doing about people who have told others they can't come but never actually spoke to you?
Like FI cousin told FI brother that her sister is getting married the same day so their family can't make it. (They don't like us, so I figured they would find a reason to not come anyway)
We should probably send them an invitation as a curtosey since they are family? Do I still have to waste a STD on them tho?
My brain hurts.
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  • AMISSA31AMISSA31
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    I would still send a STD.  The actual numbers will be reflected in the RSVP's. 

    My cousin (from S.Carolina) already told me that she and her family (3 people) cannot make it to the wedding due to her daughter graduating from high school.  I still mailed STD to them and will also mail the wedding invitation.  Things could change within 8 months!
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  • TogetherPerfectTogetherPerfect member
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    I honestly wouldn't waste an STD on them. Apparently they already know the date of the wedding anyway, since the sister is getting married that same day? I would do an invitation, as you said, just to be courteous though.
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  • SwazzleSwazzle member
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    I would probably still send them a STD and definitely still send the invitation.



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  • Danny&Mel2003Danny&Mel2003 member
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    I have some family That have done the same tell others not me. Out of respect they are getting std and invites. If they say something before invites go out then I won't be sending them invite period but for now they are on the list.
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  • ameliah19ameliah19
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    I don't think you have to send a save the date. There are people on my dads side of the family that I plan on inviting that I haven't sent a STD to. But send an invitation as a courtesy but I wouldn't waste the STD or postage. 
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  • SSaltzman87SSaltzman87 member
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    Yeah I'd still send a STD and an Invite just to be polite.
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  • aprahamian2aprahamian2
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_what-to-do-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:3b96e4b7-a11d-4781-a527-7c28bb032571Post:ed0a3d69-79c8-4045-8759-940fa91e495d">Re: What to do?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yeah I'd still send a STD and an Invite just to be polite.
    Posted by SSaltzman87[/QUOTE]

    <div>Me too. I'm sending to everyone, even if they have told me they can't make it.</div>
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