So my MOH is going through SO much right now. Like just crazy levels of personal stuff and family chaos. She had planned to have my B-party on the 31, the day before my shower, because my 2 OOT BMs would be in town, so this worked perfectly.
She tells me today that she cannot do the B-party anymore because she has too much going on and she needs to be there for her parents (they are having surgery soon). TOTALLY understand! I told her I was not upset in any way. She is a good friend and I want her to know I don't feel like she has let me down or anything. She has already gone above and beyond.
That said, my 2 OOT BMs have taken off work to be here that day, and I was also looking forward to going out with them. They still want to come up and hang out as planned. They said we can just call it a night out or something rather than a B-party, so MOH doesn't feel as left out. I talked to MOH about this, and she seemed ok with it, but also kind of like bummed, which is normal. But am I a horrible person for still wanting to see my two other friends and former roommates? I guess what I'm saying is I get that MOH can't be there and I don't hold that against her at all, but her ability to not be there shouldn't keep my BMs from coming up if they want to right?
MOH said something about doing a spa day, but I just kind of tried to get across the point that she has soooo much going on, and she keeps trying to spread herself too thin. I think she is just having a hard time realizing she can't do everything she would like to do, in a perfect world. I'd rather her just admit she has her hands full than to keep trying to make promises she can't keep. That honestly hurts me more.
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