So like I said everyone is in town for Easter and one of the reasons is that my sister's FI is getting baptized into the church at the vigil tonight. They live about a half hour away. I only found out that he was going through RCIA a couple weeks ago when my mom mentioned it and said that they would be going to the vigil mass in my sister's town. Since we weren't invited, my FI and I made plans to go to mass with his family at their church on Easter morning where his nieces will be altar servers.
Now I'm wondering if we should go to the vigil tonight in addition to mass tomorrow morning. We weren't invited, but of course anyone can come to the services. I don't want to make a scene and it's not for confrontation reasons, in fact I hope that it'd be so packed that no one from my family would notice we were there. I just think it's so amazing for people to decide to join the church and I feel like supporting that should be greater than any family drama.
What do you guys think? Does it seem selfish and likely to cause a scene? Should I respect the fact that I wasn't invited and not show up?
Thanks!