May 2013 Weddings

Need to Vent.. NWR

My boss lashed out at me this morning.. yelled/swore at me infront of our office staff & I don't know what to do.. I don't know what to say. I haven't done anything wrong, I was explaining to him a situation he asked about and he freaked out on me. I feel so disrespected... embarassed.. This has never happened before. I get that he's stressed out with things, but to lash out at me like that? I can barely keep my eyes open because I've been crying so much... I literally have a knot in my stomach & still feel shocked. I've applied to about 20 other administrative assitant positions this morning.... I dont want to work in a workplace where I'm treated like this... Ive had a horrible, horrible day & needed to vent to someone.. I just want this day to be over & possibly this position.

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  • I'm so sorry you had such a horrible day.  What he did was rude, unprofessional, and uncalled for.  You could always report what happened to HR.  That's what I would do.  He had no right to do that in front of other people or even in private.  I hope you find a new job really soon though!
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  • You could report him to hr an request for an internal transfer. What he did was rude an disrespectful.
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    [QUOTE]You could report him to hr an request for an internal transfer. What he did was rude an disrespectful.
    Posted by Danny&Mel2003[/QUOTE]


    This! How dare he? *hugs*
  • Oh my goodness, you poor thing! Nobody deserves to be treated like that, ugh, that is so freakin rude of your boss! . Maybe he will apologize or something and it won't be so bad tomorrow. Is this typical behavior? Anyways, like it was mentioned in PP, maybe the internal transfer is best. I hope you have a better day tomorrow!
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    I'm so sorry. I hope something better comes along. HUGS!
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  • In Response to Re:Need to Vent.. NWR:[QUOTE]You could report him to hr an request for an internal transfer. What he did was rude an disrespectful. Posted by DannyMel2003[/QUOTE] I agree with this... I am soooo sorry this happened to you ::::: HUGS:::::
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  • SwazzleSwazzle New Jersey member
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    That's awful! I would definitely report this to HR. Nobody ever deserves to be spoken to that way or embarrassed in the workplace. What an asshole. Big hugs to you!!



  • Omg this is horrible!  I'd be feeling just like you.  You should report it, but if this happened to me, I'd probably just look for another job too.

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  • That's not how you treat someone who does deserve it, much less you. You need to sit down with him and a superior manager and it needs to be addressed. I would have flipped out if that happened! So sorry :(
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  • What a tool! Yeah, that's definitely not okay. Like someone else said, I'd report it to HR and/or request an internal transfer.
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  • Thanks for all your support ladies.. yesterday was an extremely rough/long day.. Unfortunately we're a small local buisness, HR & transfers dont exist.. he's the head hauncho so I can't do or say much.. I woke up this morning with the worst stomach ache. I've been here for almost 3 years and today I came to work feeling so nervous.... what an awful feeling.  Just ready for this week to be over & for the long weekend to start.
  • That's horrible! I can't believe that people still act like this in a professional work place, just crazy.

    Hopefully something will come along soon, check out indeed.com, they always have a ton of stuff.
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