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premarital love (adult)

kristinatheninakristinathenina
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So, my fiance and I have been intimate before, that's not what I mean.  We were talking about ways to make our HM seem more special (we can act surprised), we were thinking about not being together for some time before the wedding, we thought about a month before the wedding we would stop making love.  Then we realized we will have never not done that for that long and that we would just cave in.  Is anyone else planning on abstaining before the wedding so the HM will be more special?
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  • PJBHL5PJBHL5
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    Nah. We both have kids so the fact that we've had sex before (both together and with other people) is an obviously foregone conclusion. LOL.
    I just told him the other day "Sorry buddy, but don't expect to be surprised on our wedding night. You've seen all my tricks." LOL
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  • Danny&Mel2003Danny&Mel2003 member
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    I keep telling Fi we should do that he says no lol we've gone up to 6 months due to a deployment so it can be done but it's easier to abstain when your not together.
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  • Annas2013Annas2013 member
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    We're going to try to abstain for a month before.  Not really sure if it'll work, but it's worth a try.  Did you think about trying something new on your honeymoon that you've never tried before?  There are tons of options to switch things up.
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    My FI nearly died when I talked to him about this. The most we'll do is the night before the wedding. You can always do things to spice it up but it'll be your honeymoon. For us, usually the vacation itself is an aphrodisiac!
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  • christinad31christinad31 member
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    I told my FI 3 months, but he freaked out. We may try to abstain for a month before and see what happens, lol.
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  • SRRL18SRRL18 member
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    We're not. I have a feeling we're gonna both me too tired that night.

    I'm curious as to why though?
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  • FLGatorGal88FLGatorGal88 member
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    We are also going to abstain for a month before the wedding. Fingers crossed we can make it a month.
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  • hisbabygirl76hisbabygirl76 member
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    Nope , having little ones in the house you take whatever chance you can get :) Not giving up any of those chances before :)
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    In Response to Re:premarital love adult:[QUOTE]We're not. I have a feeling we're gonna both me too tired that night.I'm curious as to why though? Posted by SRRL18[/QUOTE]

    I was wondering why also.

    We will be carrying on like normal, never considered otherwise.



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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_premarital-love-adult?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:32c5b5e4-fa2b-47d4-b6de-60aecc84cd21Post:5b74f4c1-eac6-48a7-89dc-28d094a8fa7b">Re:premarital love adult</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:premarital love adult: I was wondering why also. We will be carrying on like normal, never considered otherwise.
    Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

    Some people just like the idea of building up that "passion" and even if they don't do anything the night of the wedding, it could make that honeymoon that much more fun. It's not like it's uncommon or anything. Different strokes for different folks.
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  • melb2013melb2013 member
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    Hmmm I never really thought about it... I don't think so.  I mean, we might be really busy leading up to the wedding, so it might (might?) happen naturally.  So I'm curious- someone said they don't think anything is going to happen the wedding night... anybody else feel the same?

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  • christinad31christinad31 member
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    I think we will be partaking in post wedding festivities that night, if you know what I mean, lol.
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  • mymissingpuzzlepiecemymissingpuzzlepiece
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    No way! I could never wait that long! 
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  • Annas2013Annas2013 member
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    I mean we've never actually gone that long before, so waiting may not happen.  But I guess the point would be to make it something we hadn't had in a while, so it would be different.  Since the month leading up to it will be full of graduation festivities and moving stuff, I highly doubt we'd have time to do anything until then anyway.  And even if we did have time I have a feeling stress would be a problem.  
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  • SSaltzman87SSaltzman87 member
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    It's not something I would consider, but hey to each their own. With all I've done in my past, I'd be the last person to judge anyone :-)
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_premarital-love-adult?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:32c5b5e4-fa2b-47d4-b6de-60aecc84cd21Post:15749a82-edf7-4fee-a15a-f5bfbd6efa7e">Re: premarital love (adult)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hmmm I never really thought about it... I don't think so.  I mean, we might be really busy leading up to the wedding, so it might (might?) happen naturally.  <strong>So I'm curious- someone said they don't think anything is going to happen the wedding night... anybody else feel the same?
    </strong>Posted by melb2013[/QUOTE]

    I hope a little "something something" happens...if I don't get too drunk (FI doesn't drink so all good on his end!)! But the honeymoon is right after so if it doesn't we'll have planty of oppurtunities <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_premarital-love-adult?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:32c5b5e4-fa2b-47d4-b6de-60aecc84cd21Post:15749a82-edf7-4fee-a15a-f5bfbd6efa7e">Re: premarital love (adult)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hmmm I never really thought about it... I don't think so.  I mean, we might be really busy leading up to the wedding, so it might (might?) happen naturally. <strong> So I'm curious- someone said they don't think anything is going to happen the wedding nigh</strong>t... anybody else feel the same?
    Posted by melb2013[/QUOTE]

    I said it. Honestly, I'm expecting to be extremly tired and emotional. If I don't pass out when I hit the bed I'd be happy!
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  • RebCapponRebCappon
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    I haven't thought about that.

    And hopefully we're not too tired on our wedding night, I have a feeling though that no matter how tired we are FI will not let us sleep if we don't lol
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  • Mandee89Mandee89 member
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    This is an interesting topic because FI and I just moved in together but I am still a Virgin...he has never pushed me and I dont think he will. I thought it would'nt be so hard living with eachother to not wanna do it but OMGSH it feels nearly impossible...I am hoping to wait atleast until a month before the wedding to do anything cause I dont want it to hurt on the wedding night and that is what I heard.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_premarital-love-adult?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:32c5b5e4-fa2b-47d4-b6de-60aecc84cd21Post:4ef4b2b7-d305-4b04-8c76-948e1d573dfb">Re: premarital love (adult)</a>:
    [QUOTE]This is an interesting topic because FI and I just moved in together but I am still a Virgin...he has never pushed me and I dont think he will. I thought it would'nt be so hard living with eachother to not wanna do it but OMGSH it feels nearly impossible...I am hoping to wait atleast until a month before the wedding to do anything cause I dont want it to hurt on the wedding night and that is what I heard.
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    Good for you...stay strong. I wish FI was my first. FYI...if I remember correctly lol, it doesn't really hurt but more of an uncomfortable feeling at first. Don't let people freak you out!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_premarital-love-adult?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:32c5b5e4-fa2b-47d4-b6de-60aecc84cd21Post:42fae1b2-77f8-4cb7-a6ff-1e03083cd763">Re: premarital love (adult)</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: premarital love (adult) : Good for you...stay strong. I wish FI was my first. FYI...if I remember correctly lol, it doesn't really hurt but more of an uncomfortable feeling at first. Don't let people freak you out!
    Posted by Pnutbutr[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I second this.  I'd say uncomfortable and unenjoyable, but not painful.  I actually remember thinking "this is it?"  I wasn't impressed at first, but that changes LOL

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_premarital-love-adult?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:32c5b5e4-fa2b-47d4-b6de-60aecc84cd21Post:5adf4d51-052f-4c6c-a36a-79c0e7f56a92">Re: premarital love (adult)</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: premarital love (adult) : I second this.  I'd say uncomfortable and unenjoyable, but not painful.  I actually remember thinking "this is it?"  I wasn't impressed at first, but that changes LOL
    Posted by melb2013[/QUOTE]
    Lmbo...exactly!
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