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inviting divorced aunt and uncle?

My mother's only sister has been married to my uncle my whole life and they have three sons who I was very close to when we were growing up, until the family moved across the country.  The past 2 years, my aunt and uncle's relationship has been rocky and involved a lot of fighting.  A few months ago, they decided to get a divorce; they both travel a lot for work though, so they still live at the same house, but are almost never there at the same time.  My cousins blame my aunt for most of the problems, and since they're all in college or grad-school, can't afford to pay to come to the wedding on their own.  My uncle said that if he comes to the wedding, he'll pay for my cousins to come too, but my aunt already told my mom she was coming alone.
Is it okay to invite them all?  And if I do invite both my aunt and uncle, do I send 2 invitations or just 1, since they're at the same address?

Re: inviting divorced aunt and uncle?

  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    This is a question only you and your family can figure out.  Nobody here really knows the dynamics.
  • In general, I would invite everyone who you want there, don't invite anyone you don't want, and let them decide.
  • WzzWzz member
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    invite who you want, like heffalump said.

    let these people all figure out their own finances and travel plans. it's really not your place to figure out who is fighting with whom and where the travel money will come from. your job is to send out invitations.
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