My partner and I have been together for almost 17 years and have been waiting for the right time and place to "do it right". We're going to be moving to SF next year and hopefully with the legal environment in CA we'll be able to get legally married soon. I'm the more traditional of the two of us and want the big formal church ceremony -- pipe organ, processional, and all. I know I may be dreaming but does anyone out there know of any churches or cathedrals in SF that will perform same-sex unions?