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  • ootmother2ootmother2 member
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    A child in the bridal party is always an exception to the "no kids" olicy
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  • MrsGandthebeagMrsGandthebeag member
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    So you're only inviting one of her three kids?  That doesn't sound like the best idea to me.  
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  • sugeirinunezsugeirinunez
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    she offer me to put her youngest so who is 6 instead of my son in the wedding.like i said before i have 4 kids in weding my 7 year old daughter,my son,her daughter and a niece of my fiance.
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  • achiduckachiduck member
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    You really can't expect a family to only bring one of their children. 
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  • NcsuPsychNcsuPsych member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_sister-in-law-dramaaapleasee-advice-soon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4ed93c01-646c-4d17-ac24-65aaab363931Post:fa9d071b-cd45-46f8-b389-89befbf714c8">sister in law dramaaa!!pleasee advice soon.</a>:
    [QUOTE]Im getting marry in 27 day .I called my soon to be sister in law to comfirm what she and her daughter who is going to be my flower girl are having for dinners and response "my kids and I are having seafood. I answer her back by reminding her that no kids allow.Only the ones that are going to be part of wedding wich are a total of 4 kids including her daughter. I have other family member who have kids and they are ok w my no kids rule .The problem is that if I allow her to bring her three kids , i would have to allow my siter,my others sister in law and all kids in family.she has told me if her kids are not invited that she wont come to wedding and is also telling my fiance,s best man not to  come to the wedding or to be part of it because is her boyfriend.please advice me on what to do i cant allow her kids come and not the rest of my nieces and nephews a total of (12) kids.I cant not affort it and it would just be to many kids.
    Posted by sugeirinunez[/QUOTE]


    Soo you're wanting us to tell you that it's okay for you to tell your SIL, that she can bring <u>one</u> of her kids, so that you can use her in the wedding, but that she is not allowed to bring her other <u>three</u> children.

    No, you can't tell her that. You're in the wrong here. I think your best option here is to allow your SIL to bring all of her kids, and keep it strictly to those kids and if others ask, explain that they were in the wedding party. It's still a stretch and IMO, I'm not a fan of that idea, but I think you telling her that the only child allowed is the flower girl, is crappy.


    Also, please use better grammer, punctuation, etc. It was rather difficult to fully understand your posting.
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  • sugeirinunezsugeirinunez
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    she is the only one complaning ..what should I do 
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  • NcsuPsychNcsuPsych member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_sister-in-law-dramaaapleasee-advice-soon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4ed93c01-646c-4d17-ac24-65aaab363931Post:e9979436-b617-4f2f-8d23-7cf653b9ffab">Re: sister in law dramaaa!!pleasee advice soon.</a>:
    [QUOTE]A child in the bridal party is always an exception to the "no kids" olicy
    Posted by ootmother2[/QUOTE]

    Expect when she's wanting to split the family in half. . .
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  • amymaysaamymaysa
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_sister-in-law-dramaaapleasee-advice-soon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4ed93c01-646c-4d17-ac24-65aaab363931Post:76f31646-3316-4e5f-9b9a-ac510042188a">Re: sister in law dramaaa!!pleasee advice soon.</a>:
    [QUOTE]You really can't expect a family to only bring one of their children. 
    Posted by achiduck[/QUOTE]


    This!
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  • achiduckachiduck member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_sister-in-law-dramaaapleasee-advice-soon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4ed93c01-646c-4d17-ac24-65aaab363931Post:aac08f11-92c7-4e11-a4b4-212ad48e6676">Re: sister in law dramaaa!!pleasee advice soon.</a>:
    [QUOTE]she is the only one complaning ..what should I do 
    Posted by sugeirinunez[/QUOTE]
    You should be a good host and let her bring her other two kids. 
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  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    Sorry but you're wrong. You can't tell her only 1 of her kids is invited.
     
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  • sugeirinunezsugeirinunez
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    so what about my sister kids and my others sister in law .they are gonna feel bad that their kids are not invited .And sorry for grammar and spelling .typing to fast 
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  • NcsuPsychNcsuPsych member
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    [QUOTE]so what about my sister kids and my others sister in law .they are gonna feel bad that their kids are not invited .And sorry for grammar and spelling .typing to fast 
    Posted by sugeirinunez[/QUOTE]

    You allow the siblings of those in the wedding party to attend. It's really rude to split families up in the way that you're talking about. If you wanted a truly 'no kid' event, then you shouldn't have added any children to your wedding party.
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  • sugeirinunezsugeirinunez
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    Thank you for your help !! I would work something out. 
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  • NcsuPsychNcsuPsych member
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    OP, just so you know for future reference, deleting the main posting doesn't make a difference if you've been quoted. It honestly is a smack in the face to those individuals that took the time to read your post and respond with a suggestion.
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  • sugeirinunezsugeirinunez
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_sister-in-law-dramaaapleasee-advice-soon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4ed93c01-646c-4d17-ac24-65aaab363931Post:c615edf5-88ea-4561-9b4f-626a368c4e8f">Re: sister in law dramaaa!!pleasee advice soon.</a>:
    [QUOTE]So you're using one child as a prop for your wedding, and telling the other two that you don't need or want them, so stay home? That's how it looks. Invite them all, or none.
    Posted by RetreadBride[/QUOTE]
     Thank for advice . I did invite them all !!
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  • sugeirinunezsugeirinunez
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_sister-in-law-dramaaapleasee-advice-soon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4ed93c01-646c-4d17-ac24-65aaab363931Post:43bdb31f-ebc7-4c9c-b076-21605ad5c2d2">Re: drama</a>:
    [QUOTE]OP, just so you know for future reference, deleting the main posting doesn't make a difference if you've been quoted. It honestly is a smack in the face to those individuals that took the time to read your post and respond with a suggestion
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    </div><div>Sorry didnt want to be rude.just that I solve my problem . Thanks for reply!!!</div>
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  • sugeirinunezsugeirinunez
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_sister-in-law-dramaaapleasee-advice-soon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4ed93c01-646c-4d17-ac24-65aaab363931Post:5afb7704-322b-4193-9a86-2271d30efae3">Re: drama</a>:
    [QUOTE]You're welcome.  Congrats to you for taking the high road.
    Posted by RetreadBride[/QUOTE]
    yeah I realized is not worth for me to stress about little things like this.They are going to be part of my family and I love my fiance and want everybody to be happy.After reading some of my comment I realized I was wrong and that is not a big deal to have  kids in wedding.Thank you<div>for reading my post.</div>
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