Geezzz..... lol. i'm getting whiplash!
So yesterday, my FMIL asked me what I thought about moving my wedding up to before the baby. I told her that I really hadn't thought of it 1) because my family would not afford to make it up here on such short notice - they live in florida 2) the FI and I would definately not have the money to have our wedding sooner.
She offered to pay for everything up front if we move the wedding up to December. I talked to my family and told them and while they confirmed what I believed (they couldn't make it) they were 100% supportive of the idea. My FMIL is trying to make sure that I get to enjoy both experiences. She said she wants to make sure that I have my special wedding day without having to worry about anything else and then after I can focus on the baby coming. I think it's a great idea! But I just can't imaging having my wedding without my mom and my brother there. A family friend offered to let my mom use her ff miles but I think my mom would be too embrrassed to take up the offer.
So.... Monday I am going to call to see if they can move up the date. If they can and my photog agrees.. then I have alot of work to do!!! Or should I even do it? I mean... My FI's family had done so much for us over the past 4 years. I don't have any family up here so they have taken over that role and have always been behind me and supported me with everything. I'm pretty sure they love me more than their own son!! lol. So it's hard to deny them anything after all they have done.
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