So my FI and i are getting married in March, and we picked a beautiful venue that we both loved that is about 1 1/2 hours away from where we live and at the farthest 2 hours for most of our guests. My sister lives in the same town with me so its about 1 1/2 hour drive. (i dont think that is far at all, if i cared for someone i would definately not see it a big deal to drive to that wedding) i have driven 5 for a wedding. Anyway, the other day my sister tells me that it was very inconsiderate of me to pick a wedding spot SO FAR away. She proceded to tell me that she just may not be able to make that trip. :S This hurt my feelings but i said "i wll be sad if you cant come, but if you dont want to then it is your choice" She has been this way since i got engaged. when i first told her of our engagement she ran off to my younger sister and said "oh great, now flea (my nickname) will just rub it in our faces how wonderful her life is compared to mine) i have never done such a thing. Then i asked if she wanted to go look at dresses. she said no, but then threw a fit when she found out i bought a dress without her there!! Its driving me crazy!! She has always been the type to try to "one up" everyone and if you do something she has to do it bigger and better. She was mad at me that i would not wear her old wedding dress, she never got to wear it becuase she ended up getting married in the courthouse, but its 2 sizes to small, and not my type os style, but thank you for the offer. i tell her this and she is still mad! What do i say to her, or do i just ignore it all, cause she is being ridiculous.