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Booking venue tomorrow (hopefully) & question about timing?

Tomorrow I am meeting with my dream wedding venue, the Miami Beach Resort & Spa, and hoping to leave with a contract signed. I visited the venue about two weeks ago when the wedding coordinator was out of town, and someone else who works there told me I could have the date that I wanted, 11-5-11, even though there was a class reunion scheduled because they were flexible. Well just yesterday the wedding coordinator was finally able to get back to me and told me that the class reunion cannot move to a different ballroom because the clients happen to be movie stars. I was a little disappointed, but at least they had another date available that month on the 19th, the Saturday before Thanksgiving. I am mostly okay with this, I just have to decide if we will skip Thanksgiving or put off the honeymoon for a week (probably the latter).

My concern is about timing of the ceremony and reception. Both of the ballrooms that I want to use have huge windows around the entire room. My vision was that we would have the ceremony during daylight, then the cocktail hour during sunset (also in a window intensive room facing the west), and then the reception during nighttime. This really fits in with the themes of the rooms as well, as they are very "day and night", which I love.
  
Ceremony (Dome Ballroom)

Reception (Starlight Ballroom)

Originally I had picked 5:30 as a ceremony start time because sunset would be at 6:30. Ceremony from 5:30-6, cocktail until 7, and reception until 11. Moving the date back two weeks moves us out of Daylight Savings Time, so the sunset would be at 5:30.

Should I move forward everything by an hour to match with the sunset? I'm a little worried that 10pm is a little early of an ending time, and my guests are partiers. I may be able to pay for an extra hour, but the budget is already maxed out at the moment. What do you guys think?
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Re: Booking venue tomorrow (hopefully) & question about timing?

  • edited December 2011
    That`s my same problem but my wedding is 10-15-11 so the sunset would be at 6:30.If you are able to pay the extra hours the best choose is moving the hour.
    Can you  email me the brochure of the menus and prices .
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  • edited December 2011
    we are having out ceremony most likely at 4-4:30 and having cocktail hour as the sun sets. You dont want to take photos outside(if you) are at night, you should have daylight or the sun setting. That hotel is beautiful... I would have chosen that one but Miami charges an additional i believe 9% than Palm Beach and Broward for taxes.
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  • PattyJosePattyJose member
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    edited December 2011
    If you can afford the extra hour, do it. But keep in mind that whatever your budget is now, it will most likely increase by the time you get married.

    To be completely honest with you, if you cant afford the extra hour, dont even stress it. They are still going to be getting the same party time and are still going to enjoy it just as much.

    Worse case scenario, if the night of your wedding you just want to keep going....pay that extra hour and they will just bill you for it. They usually always provide you with that option, just make sure you talk to your DJ about the possibility of staying that extra hour and what his rate would be.

  • edited December 2011
    I'm doing (or hoping) to do the same thing with the day, sunset and evening series.
    I agree with PP, if you can afford the extra hour, plan for it, but DO NOT pay for it in advanced. Find out with the venue what would you need to do if for any reason that day you need that extra time. Do not pay for it in advance if you don't have to. You never know how a party will turn out until that day. So if you see that 30 mins before end time it doesn't seem like it's gonna die down, then go for the extra hour.
    If you can't afford it, then don't sweat it. You can move your party one hour before so you can have the 3 settings and if people are not done partying by 10, have everyone continue at a nearby restaurant/bar or even at the hotel lounge. Or people can simply just go home. :-)

    It's really up to you, but don't sweat it. Your guest will be happy regardless and they will have a great time.

    GL
  • edited December 2011
    I agree if you can afford the extra hour do it! Its best not to be stressed and kicking people out you know?

    btw Danayelena88 you are going to be future mrs. quevedo? thats my last name ! :P
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  • edited December 2011
    Thanks guys! I didn't think about the possibility of adding an extra hour the day of. I'll ask the wedding coordinator about that. Hopefully I'll come back tomorrow with my very first check!
    Danayelena88, I sent you a private message.
    waterroxy17, you are right, the tax is 9% there, and the service 21%! I'm cutting back in some other areas (flowers, cheaper dress, DIY invitations, etc.) in order to hopefully have my dream venue. I'm also not worried about photos since I'm planning on doing a first look :)
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