August 2012 Weddings

Going to go insane

my FI is killing me,.  after almost a year of planning and discussing he is starting to say, oh, an out door wedding would have been nice, and after discussing veils and both agreeing we didn't care for the over the face type, i was playing around and flipped mine over my face and he said "ohhh I like that".  TO LATE BUDDY.....Shoulda spoken up a long time ago.  GRRRRRRR.

Re: Going to go insane

  • I think men don't think about things. Try not to strangle him :)
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  • My FI totally does this stuff too! When we first got engaged, I really wanted to do just a small wedding with immediate family, grandparents, and God Parents... he said he would miss the rest of the extended family and I agreed and we decided to do the whole big shabang. A couple days ago he goes, it would have been so nice to just do.... I was so mad! Hang in there, girl!
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  • My FI gets frustrating too.  He now wants to elope, and when I try to get him to call his grandparents for 2 ADDRESSES he says, "that's too stressful for me".. I'm sorry, I'm the one planning basically solo and caring 24/7 for an elderly person!!  Excuse me for asking him to make a phone call?!

    Sorry, that came out harsher than I meant to.. I love FI, this just really frustrated me..


    OP- I know how you feel, just keep trying to talk to your FI and keep lines open to talking.  Communication really does help!!
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