Long story short, We were married for 10 years and I was the one who filed for divorce 3 years ago. We got married young, had kids right away and I don't think I knew who I was yet. He has always said he would never give up (which I am thankful for) and after me growing into myself and us keeping communication open and working out things, we have talked about getting remarried within the next year. I am thinking of a way to bring back elements of our first wedding to surprise him. We have 2 boys and do not want to do the big wedding thing...something just for "our family". I was thinking about taking my original wedding dress and having it made into a new dress, perhaps cocktail length or incorporating it somehow. He has mentioned getting an entirely new ring but I love my original one. Any ideas there? Any suggestions or advice is greatly appreciated.