I always assumed when I heard about this option that the wine would be replenished throughout the night. If not, that is a crappier option than I thought. I'd rather offer a limited bar menu of wine… (View Post)
I think you should tell them. I think they'd appreciate hearing the engagement will be long if they feel you are too young or it's too soon. I'm not a big fan of big secrets. They eventually come ou… (View Post)
Formal invitation + blocked room would have made me think it was hosted, too. However, like @banana468 said, that would be so rare for my crowd that I'd bring back-up money and not be overly offended… (View Post)