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They are not my style. I know some people say shop like it's their birthday, but there are also benefits in getting gifts that are basically the same (but personalized to the person), especially if t… (View Post)

Good one! Are you having flower girls or ring bearers? We aren't and couldn't really articulate why we didn't like it. You very eloquently put our feelings into words. I'm actually horrified by some… (View Post)

I've been hearing that no shows are normal, but I could not even imagine just not showing up for a wedding I RSVP'd for. It seems like such a slap in the face to the host of the wedding. You still ha… (View Post)

I've never heard of this tradition, but accept that it is something done in your social group/geographical area. While taken out of context it could seem rude (this would never fly in the East Coast,… (View Post)

I wouldn't do that. It's not fair to your other guests, and won't necessarily dissuade him. When you're short on money, it's not hard to get people to buy you drinks (next round's on me! and then di… (View Post)