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I think since they specifically requested a nicer shirt, that can be considered part of their gift. I don't know why you're giving them all monogrammed flasks and cufflinks, but that can all be consi… (View Post)

Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials. Yes, it's inappropriate to invite anyone (even family) to a pre-wedding party, especially a shower, if that person is not invited to the wedding. You should… (View Post)

@farram19, they definitely don't and shouldn't really. These are your FI's dear friends presumably. He's giving them gifts to show his appreciation for their friendship over the years, as well as bei… (View Post)

Where in the world do you work that this is a common occurrence? (View Post)

If he's expecting guests to pay for their own meals you should decline. That's really unacceptable. (View Post)