CommitmentCat member

Go with the dress you love. Don't change it because you are afraid of her reaction. With her wedding being 8 months prior to yours she gets to show off the dress to everyone first anyway. (View Post)

Okay, my impression of this is that if you want to donate your wedding to charity why not just not have the big wedding and give the money you would spend to charity? Or is it that you don't act… (View Post)

This reminds me of that episode of Friends where Monica and Chandler go on honeymoon and the couple in front of them get all the upgrades. We're planning a destination wedding and our honeymoon … (View Post)

I would leave it up. She sounds like an amazing friend who is still trying to be there for you despite her own situation. I'm not an etiquette guru, I am still learning from them, but I am a big… (View Post)

That's absolutely terrible. I agree with the PPs. I would not plan for him to be there, if he decides to show up, well that would be a nice surprise, but I wouldn't get your hopes up and pl… (View Post)