I don't think you're being overly sensitive. Your FMIL is just being rude. I think you should tell your FI about it and have him talk to his mother about it. If you speak to her about it then she see… (View Post)
I think it's best to just have one type of save the dates. As for timing you should send them about 6 months before. You don't want to send them too early or too late. (View Post)
That sounds like a plan. On the day of ask a server or ask someone close to you ask a server (if you're too busy) if they actually receive the tips. (View Post)
I think tipping with a cheque may be awkward and make it a bit more difficult to divide the tips. I agree with @SMarie89. Try and give the tips to the right hands. I always think it's best to give it… (View Post)