First, in general, isn't it recommended to solidify the guest list, figure out the budget, then figure out how to make them work together? Sounds like you have tried and it just doesn't wor… (View Post)
Another option In My expect-to-be-unpopular-in-these-forums-Opinion: Your guests care about you and your fiance and know your fiance is a refugee seeking asylum - just knowing that already implies co… (View Post)
It sounds like you want a little formality. How about Guests of Honor? You could talk to them “(Name), I hope you know you are very important to (me/groom/us). Would you like to be a Guest of Honor a… (View Post)