First, in general, isn't it recommended to solidify the guest list, figure out the budget, then figure out how to make them work together? Sounds like you have tried and it just doesn't work? I was i… (View Post)
Another option In My expect-to-be-unpopular-in-these-forums-Opinion: Your guests care about you and your fiance and know your fiance is a refugee seeking asylum - just knowing that already implies co… (View Post)
It sounds like you want a little formality. How about Guests of Honor? You could talk to them “(Name), I hope you know you are very important to (me/groom/us). Would you like to be a Guest of Honor a… (View Post)