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If I were in your BP, I'd appreciate the option to attend either one or both. Rehearsal plus dinner is pretty standard and expected, but the on-going activities might be more commitment than I'd like… (View Post)

No, you shouldn't feel guilty. This BM who wants it to be "nicer than a potluck" can pick up the extra cost herself, or she can put in the extra work to plan it with everyone's budget in mi… (View Post)

Did she tell you she was bringing BFF, or did they just show up together? Was BFF the only non-WP person at the fitting? I think I'd also find it strange to have one of my BMs show up to something t… (View Post)

The current excuse I hear nearly everyday: "I really don't give a crap. This is what we're doing. If people have a problem with it, tough shit. They're rude for even assuming we'd do otherwise.&… (View Post)

If you must tell her, tell her honestly: "Friend, I'm sorry but because of your boyfriend's background and history, I'm not comfortable having him at my wedding. I hope you understand and will s… (View Post)