I'm not sure how "down" you need to keep your costs. For me, I did aim to spend less than my friends had spent on flowers. I set a budget, and told my florist I'd like to be as ch… (View Post)
(I am only speaking for myself here and I'm sure this is different for other Jew folks) I am Jewish and I would be thrilled to celebrate Rosh Hashana by attending someone else's wedding. Fo… (View Post)
I agree - you should just be grateful. Don't overthink this. It's nice that she's willing to throw you a shower and it sounds like she's just being extra careful to make sure you … (View Post)
I recently attended a fabuously hosted wedding - amazing appetizers, high end open bar, the works! Unfortunately their cocktail hour lasted two hours. Two hours of oysters and grey goose normally wou… (View Post)
I live in the Boston area and have seen many friends/coworkers plan weddings up in NH or ME. It's very scenic, and quite frankly, alot less expensive than Boston. Go for it. (View Post)