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Ugh now I'm afraid I've gone about this all wrong. I was actually looking at this website for organization tips and that's when I found the checklist. I did tell them not to blow their budgets, but t… (View Post)

I guess in the past (I've been a BM twice) I have felt pressured to contribute to all these things so I thought it was just kind of what you do and hoped the favor would be returned. (View Post)

Thanks @flantastic. I think I'll do that. I'm definitely guilty of getting swept away in wedding stuff but I don't want it to change who I am as a person and a friend, so I'm glad I came here. I just… (View Post)

@hsgator, thanks, I get it. I'm not and have never planned to require hair and makeup. I'm paying for dresses (that they can choose based on color/fabric), they can pick their own shoes, and I alread… (View Post)