OP, can you please clarify? I thought you said you were doing an anniversary party (possibly with toasts to each other) and spotlight dances. Are you still planning on doing a ceremony reenactment? (View Post)
Where are you located? Where I am from the bride pays for everything. What I understand in America is they only pay for the dress that is in their budget. Are you requiring hair and makeup? If so, y… (View Post)
My Mum can be a bit similar- for example, deep down she has very low self-esteem but because of that can be incredibly defensive and hostile if she feels that she is being attacked, even if no one i… (View Post)
I agree to wait until everything is finalised. I would float the idea to your mum and her fi first. Even though everyone is an adult, you might be walking into a sticky situation with his kids and ho… (View Post)
So just an aside, I hope you can appreciate that where I am from, suspenders means the special women's underwear that holds up thigh-high stockings. I'm just imagining a very Rocky Horror wedding par… (View Post)