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Again, there is no context here. So we can't tell you what to do. Can you give a general overview? For all we know you and your BM could be the range from demanding/catty to chill/open. But I do hav… (View Post)

I think PPs have covered the +1 issue. However, spite-inviting someone to your wedding raises really big flags for me for your friendship with this person. Are you sure she isn't dating him? Or just … (View Post)

Sorry, I meant 'move out' in the sense of out of the marital bed. Like, not just that he is on the sofa for a week and it's NBD. He needs to be in a completely different space (ideally a guest room)… (View Post)

I also want to know what her H has done in order to fix this. It's one thing to say 'I should forgive him', but what (outside of councelling and asking for forgiveness) has the H done to deserve forg… (View Post)

I think if your parents are paying for everything, and space is not a factor, just let them come. It's potentially 10 people we are talking about in the scheme of things. It's not really that big of… (View Post)