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Can you do an exit? Even if you just go get a drink with the 2 of you for an hour and come back to your house. For example: 4:30 anounce last call 5:00 make a thank you for coming speech and set out … (View Post)

My answer is: quit trying to justify your choices of having multiple ceremonies by tying people up with pseudo-legalese answer choices. You get one wedding, and no matter how you justify it to yourse… (View Post)

Ignore it. If someone mentions it to you again, say 'it's a shame Jane feels that way. I hope she changes her mind. We'll miss her. ' She is embarrassing herself. Don't fuel the fire at all by expres… (View Post)

I agree with PP, you have 2 options: 1.) Accept that if your mum pays for flowers, she is going to institute her vision or 2.) Say 'Thanks for the generous offer, however, we have decided to go our o… (View Post)

But have you spoken to the manager? If it's her mistake, she sounds incompetent. My advice is speak to the owner/manager. Find out what their plan was going to be had you not done this. They can't c… (View Post)