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Are you south Asian or marrying someone of South Asian heritage? Every time I’ve been to a Mendhi party, it was coordinated by the mum/aunties of the B or G.  (View Post)

Please continue to postpone the wedding until you are both in a better place. One doesn’t cancel a wedding in haste. Get off off social media as a place to air grievances. Contine with conselling. Th… (View Post)

If you are so young that your mum can tell you to have a wedding and tell you who your bridesmaids are, you are too young to get married. You don't have a sister issue, you have 'spineless to mummy' … (View Post)

I am so, so sorry you are going through this. I am sure this has completely upended everything in your life right now. Is there any chance you can get away for a bit? Even if you go to stay with a fr… (View Post)

It is perfectly fair to have complicated feelings about this. You recognise it could have been 100% worse, but it also could have been so much more what you wanted. All I can say is take a break from… (View Post)