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" I do want to have this celebration as a celebration, not a reenactment, and I'm cutting all the fluff that I think we should" So I just realised you are the same poster that was going to … (View Post)

Congratulations, you are married! Stop stressing about a wedding. You had yours already. It was in Japan. A celebration party for a wedding does not involve officiants, save the dates, bridesmaids, w… (View Post)

Unfortunately, this is a 'how long is a length of rope' question. You need to start contacting a range of caterers. Start from mid-range traditional wedding caterers, down to BBQ or restaurant cateri… (View Post)

I am really glad to hear this. Where are his children, however? Parental alienation is a big problem with abusers.  (View Post)

Invite everyone (Friend, Bf, fi's friend +1). It's a +1 (where he can bring a friend) not a -1 (where he can remove someone from the guest list!). If he can't handle it that's his issue.  (View Post)