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I kind of get what he's trying to say, but don't understand why he can't just talk to her. My H's work is incredibly tedious to me, but I want to hear about his day and commiserate together. So when … (View Post)

I've seen a lot of stuff circulating over the last couple of years about not judging older kids for ToTing. I had a developmentally challenged cousin who would have kept going through her 30s if her … (View Post)

Keep yourself safe, but I see no reason to tell him anything. He did this to try to take advantage of you; I don't have a moral problem with stringing him along for as long as you can.  (View Post)

This is what I'm struggling with. H and I had a long conversation last night about this. He is feeling really inspired and wants to go to every event and protest. I'm feeling so jaded and like it's … (View Post)

So in all this conversation about ethical monogamy and setting the rules, you never had a theoretical conversation about catching feelings for another person? Because I call bullshit. That's always s… (View Post)