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I've seen a lot of stuff circulating over the last couple of years about not judging older kids for ToTing. I had a developmentally challenged cousin who would have kept going through her 30s if her … (View Post)

Keep yourself safe, but I see no reason to tell him anything. He did this to try to take advantage of you; I don't have a moral problem with stringing him along for as long as you can.  (View Post)

This is what I'm struggling with. H and I had a long conversation last night about this. He is feeling really inspired and wants to go to every event and protest. I'm feeling so jaded and like it's … (View Post)

So in all this conversation about ethical monogamy and setting the rules, you never had a theoretical conversation about catching feelings for another person? Because I call bullshit. That's always s… (View Post)

Oh yeah, that's the innocent victim. Not your wife, the person who you made vows to and broke. The person who's life has been destroyed by your selfishness. The person who is somehow trying to go thr… (View Post)