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Anger at other people and at the world in general is really normal. It's sort of being angry at the world for continuing to spin while your world is falling apart. It's not rational, but most of gri… (View Post)

I wouldn't tell grandma I'm not in charge of the guest list. That would just redirect her to go nag the daughter. "They're not invited. I'm sure you'll have time to meet up with them on the days… (View Post)

It's really not. One of the projects I work with involves an outsourced call center that accepts and bank drafts credit cards by phone. The payment team works in a separate room and have to store th… (View Post)

Yup, this is it right here. It's actually really common for abusers to try to reframe victims' actions as abusive in order to 1) gaslight them and 2) make them hesitant to call the police. Get out y… (View Post)

After only a few weeks, I would give her some space and just walk away for a while. "Sorry you feel that way, but little Johnny still needs to go to school." At some point H will have to co… (View Post)