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thanks for the reality check guys!! I think considering I said "That was my grandfather's name and my first choice for a baby name" that's about as direct as I should be without saying &quo… (View Post)

Great points Addie. If I went to a wedding and it said that in lieu of any flowers a donation was made to xyz, i'd definitely be more impressed. (View Post)

Hmmm, we've done invites for other parties (parents anniversary, etc) where we've just said, "your presence is present enough" or something. if you can spread it word of mouth that's better… (View Post)

My work friends threw a shower for me, I actually asked them not to at first bc the women I work w/ arent' invited to the wedidng, but they said it's so rare to have a wedding in the office that htey… (View Post)

You can offer a monetary amount, but PPs are a little over the top in saying it's "rude" to cover one person's airfare. it's not rude, it's extremely generous. It's a shared pot of money, s… (View Post)