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Ivory looks very elegant. I am sure both of you and the BM will look great. Are your parents more conservative as to what an evening attire should be? As long as you don't have a "black tie"… (View Post)

Back to the name issue : I agree with @SingleMom31 I am a huge fan of keeping one's maiden name. But if you do that, naturally people will not always call you Ms. Maidenname, if they know only the na… (View Post)

In what state is the wedding? (View Post)

How are you going to do that? If you go to everybody's house to deliver it, it is not tacky. If anything, it is a very old fashioned form of highest respect. Just like when you ask the father for his… (View Post)

Somebody said ( or maybe more than one person? ) that tradition =/= etiquette Can we try to define "etiquette" first? According to Oxford dictionary, etiquette is: "the customary code … (View Post)