OP, your current plan will be very offensive to the majority of your guests. I have two suggestions; pick one. Option A: Have a big wedding at your church at a non-meal time (let's say 2 pm). Have a … (View Post)
I'm with PPs; invite the four or decline. It sounds like you don't want to do either, but I really think this one could cause hurt feelings and professional problems down the line. (View Post)
Ditto this. For my WP, I emailed a schedule of where to be and when (making it clear that the wedding was the only required part!) about a week out, and several said they found it very helpful. I def… (View Post)
I get it. That's his call to make. I still think the easiest solution would be to have her bring a friend. If she is the only single person offered a plus-one I don't think it would ruffle any feathe… (View Post)
I'm with the PPs who say to tell Andrew he can bring a friend since his wife can't make it. I don't think that's b-listing since OP isn't sending Abe an invite. One of my grad school friends brought … (View Post)