I'm with PPs; just love and support him. Clearly if his wife needs him he won't be there, but he's still your FI's honored attendant. He'll lead the way. My other suggestion is to encourage your FI t… (View Post)
Honestly, for a very good friend I might still go, but I would be offended. If Hwas the one invited I'd let him go if he wanted, but I still would be offended. It's better for the bride and groom to … (View Post)
PPs have great advice. It sounds like your friends aren't that into wedding talk, which is fine! Also, since your party back home is just that, a party, their WP duty to stand up with you for your ma… (View Post)
I agree that letting her bring a friend is a good solution. Then sit her with some other people she knows, not the FFIL. They may not love her but they'll play nice for her son's wedding. Let FFIL br… (View Post)
I'd move it to around May 1 if you still can. The later it is, the less people you'll have backing out last minute. Ours was three weeks out and we had a bunch. (View Post)