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There's an episode of How I Met Your Mother where one woman doesn't realize that bridal showers aren't usually for silly lingerie/sex toys anymore (I think there was a time when that was fairly commo… (View Post)

Erm... I wasn't talking about the *same people*. I was just saying that the snark, about how people only care about local traditions when it saves them money, was completely inaccurate because most … (View Post)

Yes, agreed that etiquette should be about the needs of others. Which is why the "you might be side-eyed" argument is illogical, as you should be able to rely on "your guests will be h… (View Post)

I am definitely reminded as to why my close friends are guys and not girls. Ya'll are intense Um, maybe you're not friends with women because you've internalized some sort of patriarchal idea that me… (View Post)

Just because RSVP cards are common doesn't mean they're polite!!!!!!1! I'm sort of kidding, but also sort of wondering why this argument is so conspicuously absent from this discussion, as opposed to… (View Post)