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The annoying thing about registries, honeymoon registries, and the rather convoluted philosophy of "asking for gifts is wrong and asking for cash is wrong but registering is OK and not registeri… (View Post)

Uh, yeah. I just reread my posts and found that I did write a rhetorical question like "Why would a rule need to exist if the only consequence for breaking it is being judged?" My mistake: … (View Post)

@Jen4948, I realize I said I was leaving the thread, but just to clarify, this post was not about me. These aren't my invitations under discussion. You have absolutely no way of knowing what my invit… (View Post)

I think the idea that putting your parents on an invitation when they are not the hosts is going to actually harm anyone has been effectively demolished by someone else, so I won't repeat it. But I d… (View Post)

Thanks @Jen4948 for the explanation. I have in the past vocally disagreed with certain etiquette things (sexist ones usually) and was concerned that I had violated some actual rule somewhere. Side no… (View Post)