About 9 pages later, and I'm still dismayed that people have so distorted ATB's original words of "What is actually needed, is nuance." And indeed, as @grumbledore says, this is just anothe… (View Post)
Have to agree, I'm not sure I understand why stating vows in front of an audience that is your community is such a faux pas, even if the vows have already been given in front of an official. It's a … (View Post)
I haven't read this thread thru, but I have to say.... why are you complaining? They are informing you of their attendance intentions. Please don't be so picky about how they choose to do so. Your in… (View Post)
OP, I believe that you needed to come here for emotional support, more than advice -- which frankly this board is not fully equipped to give, in your situation. So please, accept my ehugs. I'm so, so… (View Post)
Well, according to this article by theknot, formal attire is: "The wording here suggests something slightly less formal than black tie. This means that a tuxedo isn't required but the event is s… (View Post)