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Yes, actually! That was why I suggested it. If you get it appraised ahead of time and go to a reputable diamond buyer, you should be able to get up to 90% of the value of the diamond (not the band).… (View Post)

Ask your kids who would like it. Alternatively, you could get your H to sell it and then split the money between the two kids to get something to remember you by. That would be the most equitable.  (View Post)

H didn't propose with a ring but he did agree that if I wanted a ring, we could get one. I shopped, brought him to the store that I liked and he paid. Our "will you marry me" was not what a… (View Post)

Enjoy the wine! Provided she shows up in something (i.e. not naked) it will probably be fine. Kudos for letting her pick style/+/- colour. (View Post)

I think you have a very positive attitude despite the day not going as planned! Have you actually sat down and really grieved what you lost? It may be helpful to have a pity day/weekend full of ice c… (View Post)