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My H was not invited to a friend's wedding because we hadn't been together long enough. I knew almost everyone there but it sucked that I couldn't share it with my SO. Fast forward 9 years … we are t… (View Post)

Those who are not invited to the wedding should not be invited to a pre-wedding party. The exception would be office group showers but even then, I'm a bit meh about those. Stick to your guns and dec… (View Post)

Repeat after me - "Thank you for wanting to join us on our special day but we are keeping it small". Also, avoid wedding talk. Bean dip +++ (View Post)

Agree with @charlotte989875 H and I do not have joint accounts but we know who is responsible for what and we do a balancing payment to the other once a month. We sat down when we wanted to move in t… (View Post)

I would disagree with not saying anything. The longer the elephant is in the room, the bigger it gets. I think it is best to name the emotion/reaction and say that you are sorry that there is tensio… (View Post)