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Why do they have to be surprises? A thing that many people hate, especially when it unexpectedly makes them the center of attention in a large group? Why can you not just say these dances are a thin… (View Post)

This seems like a matter for couples' therapy, because I am not understanding it. May come down to communication. What exactly are you expecting from him? What does "showing gratitude" mea… (View Post)

I think your FI is making a lot of effort while very busy - weekly wedding planning talks and multiple attempts at couples' therapy bode very well, overall. (For background, we were long distance fo… (View Post)

Interesting. If anything, I'd take it as a compliment? Imitation as the sincerest form of flattery and all that. Is there going to be much overlap in your guest list? Also, it might be about you, bu… (View Post)

Hmm. The drama you mention does not seem earth-shattering. (White shoes and nails, really? You couldn't roll your eyes and ignore that?) It's possible she realized that she didn't want what you had, … (View Post)