If you would like to give a check, then it's fine to put it in the card. It's also fine to send the card by itself. Gifts are not expected or necessary. (View Post)
I like the bolded response suggestion. I also agree that your verbal RSVP without knowing the details wasn't so official, so don't feel bad about changing your response now. And wow. (View Post)
I was going to suggest something like what @BlueBirdMB had. What about "fancier" pastas, like gnocchi or ravioli, as some of the options? You could have the pastas be vegetarian, and then a… (View Post)
Not appropriate. He should be greeting guests and socializing. I would suggest another time while they're all in town for him to play (night before or brunch after the wedding). (View Post)
There are no rules about what the cards look like. The only thing I can think of is if you get them personalized and are changing your name, don't use cards with your new last name until after the we… (View Post)