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OP, I think maybe your tone isn't translating too well. It mostly sounded to me like you just felt a bit let down that some of the things you were most excited about (dancing with people) or mos… (View Post)

Re the questions about the response date -- I sent invitations at 6 weeks. (I was under the impression that 6-8 weeks is standard, 10 is OK, and 12 is pushing it). They have about 3-3.5 weeks to RSVP… (View Post)

I agree with all this except the cake part. Feeding each other *might* be too much, but in my family, we get ceremonial about cake cutting even for birthdays and graduations, and in FI's, it… (View Post)

Honestly, this is an area where nobody needs to know. They don't need to be told, "We aren't inviting kids outside this circle" -- unless you're simply letting someone close … (View Post)

--- I think getting hung up on who the "true" hosts are CAN affect guest comfort. Case in point: brides who insist that only the designated host can accept RSVPs in a specific format. I… (View Post)