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I think you've received great advice. I just personally don't like the idea of offering to allow them to pay for additional guests. What if then your FILs want to come to the food tasting a… (View Post)

I think it comes across as super self-involved. It strikes me as more of a "watch me, world!" than it is a gift or surprise to her husband. I also found it boring.  (View Post)

And hang on.. physically abusive? I'd likely never speak to her again or subject myself to being in her physical presence ever again. Why are you allowing this person to still be in your life in… (View Post)

If she doesn't let her husband stand there and her husband goes along with her it is not your fault. You are victim blaming yourself. Her choices are her choices. This person sounds awful and t… (View Post)

Assuming it isn't MUD which it sounds like: My answer is nope! Sounds like selling your soul. She doesn't sound like someone I would even have any contact with forget allowing her to pay me… (View Post)