It sounds like you're trying to use your perception of the "closeness" of his relationship with his friends to justify making this decision. How many phone calls/texts/whatever makes one cl… (View Post)
Why, if they're close to your FI, why are they only good enough to be "sorta part of the party....but not". ? That's what stinks about this idea. (View Post)
So you would seriously leave them out of the wedding party all together because you have to have this magic number of 4, and it has to be ushers or nothing? Seriously? (View Post)