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Thanks for stalking! I was previously engaged to an abusive jerk who was controlling and made me think everything was constantly my fault. I felt very stuck in the relationship and like I had to get… (View Post)

No, this was just a regular friend. She has a regular boyfriend too (who we have met and dislike). OK I thought I'd update. FI called her up and told her she was no longer invited. This was last week… (View Post)

LOL this IS the elope - it's the elope with 3 people invited :) Maybe the answer is we need to simply NOT invite the 3 at all! (View Post)