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I appreciate your advice and you are right, this is a good opportunity for me to realize how I let people treat me. I am not going to bother rescheduling lunch with SIL. However, I am still going to… (View Post)

I told my SIL no on the added guest list, she explained that she doesn't think most of them will show up so "go ahead and send out the invitations" which I think could be a disaster if ever… (View Post)

My SIL's mother has unfortunately passed before I met her. But, I don't think my MIL should compromise her guest list to accommodate my SIL late guest list.  (View Post)

For my wedding, I provided gifts to the wedding party in addition to jewelry to wear during the ceremony. I told the ladies they didn't have to wear it if they didn't want to but rather do what makes… (View Post)

I think you should go merely for the selfish reason that I would like you to report back about how much a trainwreck this wedding was. But, like I said, that's pretty selfish on my part.  (View Post)