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He may be hoping to convert you, which would be wrong. You need to have a frank discussion with your FI and address your concerns. To the rest of the bolded, I admire and appreciate your respect for… (View Post)

This. I'm wondering the same thing. I understand that your FI's family wants the uncle to officiate; however, his beliefs go directly against your own, and yours against his. I don't understand why … (View Post)

This is a tough one, but as her husband, your grandfather gets a say over her estate if there was no will (I also find it very odd that she did not have one). At the end of the day, it is just a ring… (View Post)

Hahaha I just pictured a big corral of tumbleweeds, waiting to be unleashed on the city... "Storm's coming -- open the gates and let 'em roam!" (View Post)

You can absolutely press the colour scheme issue. She has a very wide range to work within, and she chose to go outside of that. You get to choose the colours, and she gets to be respectful of that. (View Post)