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A little late to the party, but I just saw this thread now. A small bachelorette was being planned for me, and ended up falling through for various reasons -- mostly due to very, very poor planning. … (View Post)

Welcome back! I'm soooo glad to hear that you found a new venue after that awful situation with the previous caterer! Things always work out :) (View Post)

I agree that you do not pay for transportation or any hotel costs. You are paying to host the wedding, and that is plenty. As PP mentioned, since it is a bit of an inconvenience for them to travel, i… (View Post)

We didn't leave it too basic, but didn't give them the full description, either. We put Beef Tenderloin, Duck Confit, and Mushroom Risotto rather than just Beef, Duck and Vegetarian (or Vegetarian Ri… (View Post)

As some of you know, I disappeared from the forums for a bit due to some personal/family stuff that came up in the month or two leading up to the wedding, and I also got told two weeks before the wed… (View Post)